Loneliness

🌸 Hey Friend,

I just want to take a moment to share how incredibly grateful I am for the beautiful community of women we have here.

It’s truly wonderful to see how the Lord is bringing us together, and I’m genuinely excited to grow alongside each of you. We’re on a journey of becoming better women together, and it’s a blessing to walk this path with like-minded souls who aren’t settling for what society says about love, but are instead striving for those healthy, God-fearing relationships that the Lord calls us to.

Thank you for being part of this journey with me, now lets dive in!

With love & light,
– Nico Meyers

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💍 I Thought God Forgot About Me… Until He Showed Up in My DMs

Nicole waited 7 years, praying for a Godly man. She deleted dating apps three times (Yes girl, three whole times) swore off the concept of finding love twice, and cried in her car more times than she could count. But God wasn’t late — He was building her the whole time.

Nicole met her now-husband through a Bible meme she posted on Instagram, he then slid in them DMs. The rest, as they say, is holy history. 🙌

Takeaway:
God’s promises don’t expire. Sometimes, they’re just incubating in secret.

Verse to Meditate:
“At the right time, I, the Lord, will make it happen.” – Isaiah 60:22

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💍 For Wives

“Loneliness in Marriage”

If marriage were easy, everyone would succeed at it. Clearly it ain’t easy because the divorce rates say otherwise.

Loneliness in marriage is one of the most misunderstood struggles. You’re committed, you live in the same house, you do life together… but yet, YOU FOR SOME ODD REASON DON’T FEEL SEEN. 🎶 There’s a stranger in your house. 🎶 It’s a quiet ache that many wives carry in silence. You’re not physically alone, but you still feel disconnected. The daily conversations are surface-level, your needs go unspoken (or unheard), and your heart longs for TLC.

This kind of loneliness is dangerous and often happens when emotional connection fades due to busyness, unresolved conflict, unspoken expectations, or spiritual disconnection.

Marriage isn’t just about proximity, it’s about partnership, vulnerability, and unity. When any of those are missing, loneliness creeps in.

So, how do you begin to shift that dynamic?

 1. Acknowledge it. Stop minimizing how you feel. Naming your loneliness is the first step to healing it.

 2. Pray honestly. Invite God into this area. Ask Him to reveal where walls have been built and where you may have pulled away emotionally, too because it be us sometimes. (guilty).

 3. Initiate connection. Don’t wait for your husband to “get it.” Go love on your man girl! Create small moments to connect, share something personal, ask a deeper question, or show affection. Your could even buy him a gift or make him a meal.

 4. Communicate your needs. It’s okay to say, “I feel lonely and I want us to work on this.” Vulnerability is scary, but it opens doors. If he gets defensive and starts to point blame, couples therapy may be the proper consideration.

 5. Find community. You have P31 but physical community is important. Marriage is sacred, but it’s not your only source of connection. Deep friendships and Godly community provide strength when your marriage feels weak.

Loneliness in marriage doesn’t mean your relationship is broken, it means it needs tending to like the beautiful garden it is. And you don’t have to walk through that ache alone.

💗 For Singles:

“Lonely, Waiting, and Wondering “When Will It Be My Turn?”

Singleness can sometimes come with a deep ache of loneliness. You’re strong, you’re growing, you’re trusting God… but some nights still feel painfully quiet. You want a hug.

You wonder if anyone truly sees you, if you’re falling behind, or if something’s wrong with you for still being alone. Spoiler alert: it’s not.

This type of loneliness is often fueled by outside pressure (everyone else is getting married), social media highlight reels, and internal questions like “Am I not enough?” or “Did I miss my chance?” It’s also deeply spiritual and I’m here to tell you THE DEVIL IS A LIAR.

When our desire for connection outweighs our sense of identity in Christ, we feel emotionally and spiritually depleted.

Here’s how to begin shifting that:

 1. Be honest with God. Pull that bible out its time for a prayer session. He’s not afraid of your questions, tears, or frustrations. Invite Him into the raw places of your heart and pour out to him.

 2. Identify the root. Is it cultural pressure? Be honest, is it??? Fear of being alone forever? A broken friendship? Name it.

 3. Invest in purpose, not just partnership. Start showing up in life where your gifts are needed. Fulfillment flows from purpose.

 4. Build a life you love now. You don’t have to wait for a husband to create a meaningful, beautiful life. Start becoming the woman you want to bring into a future relationship. Who is she? Does she bake? Do pilates? Start Becoming her now.

 5. Pursue real connection. Find women who can speak life into you, challenge you, and walk with you. You weren’t created to do this alone.

6. Don’t lay up with someone’s raggedy son just to fill the void. Loneliness can tempt you to settle for connection without commitment. You don’t need to keep your future husband’s seat warm just because you feel lonely today. God made you stronger than that. Trust Him to meet your emotional needs and wait for a love that honors the woman you’re becoming.

God hasn’t forgotten you. ❤️ Loneliness doesn’t mean you’re unlovable. it means your heart is longing for something deeper. And that longing can lead you closer to Him, and eventually to someone who’s worth the wait.

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